Ask Demetria: You may be hurt by your ex’s betrayal, but don’t take it out on the child.
Dear Demetria:
Yesterday I appeared in court to have a DNA test result read. It turns out the boy I have been taking care of for the last four years isn’t mine. The mother—my girlfriend—has to back-pay me, yet that doesn’t make me feel any better. I know men aren’t supposed to cry, but everything is hurting, even my toenails. I want to be there right now, it hurts so much. He call